“The irony of commitment is that it’s deeply liberating – in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around as rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.” –Anne Morriss
I’m afraid of commitment, of taking that decisive step and telling myself I can do this. With commitment comes responsibility, and the toughest of any responsibility is that I’m obligated to follow through, and what happens is on all me. I own it.
Yet, as Anne Morriss points out, there is that freedom you gain. Other tasks and activities can fall by the wayside, and I don’t have to do things that I’m really not invested in, and that don’t really matter in the grand scheme of life, the frivolous things, trivial, inconsequential.
If I am going to do something really well, with all my energy and creative talent, then I need to be completely committed, and engage my heart and my soul into the task at hand, my eye firmly focused on the goals I have set for myself.
And allow myself to be relaxed in that emotional space, to take it easy and let it flow. That’s when I’m at my best. So why not give myself permission to go to that place within me, where my creativity and spontaneity can be let loose, and thrive?
There’s that old fear, that I’m not good enough, not able enough, not competent. But, all that is on me, what I think, and what I believe about myself, my capabilities; my commitment.
I need to own it. And, when I own it, and pour my energy into it, I find myself in that state of being where my task and I become one, that what I am doing is really the essence of me, and my creative spirit.
Lately, I’ve been trying to focus on my music and my art. And, I’ve found again, and am relearning again, that when I am engaged in that work, I do best, and find the greatest satisfaction, when I am completely in the moment, completely engaged, and committed. Not only on the conscious level, but deeper, on a soulful level, subconscious, intensely internal.
I try not to listen to those old voices, the naysayers, the doom and gloomers. Instead, I need to embrace my commitment, and rejoice in that liberation.
–Neal Lemery, 11/4/2018